“My perfect match and I think about things so similarly and I never thought I would find someone who thought the same way I did. We balance each other out perfectly and are similar where it matters !”
“On our first date, over 50 years ago, we could have talked forever. We were on the same page, had the same values. That connection has never wavered for 50 years.”
We all know that relationships can be hard. They are filled with misunderstandings, hurt feelings, suppressed emotions, irrational behavior, and fights.
“No matter how hard I try, sometimes it just feels like we don’t speak the same language.” Sounds
It doesn’t have to! This feeling could be easily avoided if we just understood each other, and ourselves, better. How can we love someone else, or accept their love for us, if we don’t love ourselves.
We know that you are unique and that there are many levels to your personality. The test we have designed focuses on important parts of the whole. It will tell us how you perceive the world around you, and how you make decisions. Which has a strong impact on how you communicate with others.
Among the 16 different personalities of the test, there is one type that complements and balances yours the most. This “Perfect Match” is similar enough to make communication effortless and natural, but different enough to help you grow and keep it interesting. The purpose of Birdy is to provide you with a place where you can find these Perfect Matches !
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We would think most people already know who they are. But bare with us. After you take the test and you read the description of your personality type, you will know what we mean. You will recognize yourself in all the little things. Things that you know are true, but never realized. It is very eye opening and helps you to better understand your own actions.
That means that all the people you will be matched with have a personality that complements and balances yours. They will be similar enough to make communication effortless and natural, but different enough to help you grow and keep it interesting.
It is very important for us at Birdy to focus on personality above everything else. We want you to read the book before you judge the cover. But don’t worry, you’ll still get to see your matches pictures, you just have to be a little patient and get to know them first.
Only you decide who gets to see your picture. Every Birdy user creates a story, with unique questions that draw out their personality. You will see the stories of all your matches and can decide who you would like to connect with further and exchange pictures with. Only if both users select each others stories will the pictures be released. So you don’t have to worry about getting spammed from people whose personalities you don’t like. And you have all the control over who gets to see your picture.
Because each one of us is unique, we have different needs in terms of understanding and communication.
Especially in close relationships it is important to understand the others form of communication in order to avoid constant misunderstandings. It’s happened to all of us, we say something that makes complete sense to us, and then a huge argument breaks out because the other person “heard” something completely different.
Thankfully, 92 years ago Carl Jung, a Swiss psychiatrist, discovered a powerful pattern. He was able to classify these communication preferences. They are still used today, all over the world, through the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, or MBTI for short. Ever heard of it?
Changing the way people see themselves and others.